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February 15, 2007

Happy Cream Puff Day

In Dale's family, Valentine's Day is affectionately called "Cream Puff Day." I still remember our first Valentine's Day together, back in 1997. Dale and I used to meet at his house for lunch every day back then and he greeted me at the back door with a plate of cream puffs and the exclamation, "Happy Cream Puff Day, baby." I asked him why we had cream puffs on Valentine's Day and he said he didn't know why but his mother always made them and it was a tradition.

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Me being a librarian, I had to know the whole story so I walked next door and asked Dale's mother, Ruthie, to explain the cream puff tradition. She told me that it dated back to Valentine's Day, 1948. She and Dale's father, Jack, who was in the Air Force, were stationed in Roswell, New Mexico (yes, that Roswell - but that's another story) and she was pregnant with her first baby. They had no money to buy Valentines for anyone and she really wanted to do something special for the guys in Jack's unit. So she turned to her cookbooks and looked for something she could bake to give as gifts to these men. She found a recipe for cream puffs and realized that she had all the ingredients on hand and they sounded pretty simple to make. And a tradition was born.

By the time I came along, Ruthie was making dozens of cream puffs every Valentine's Day. She complained about how much work it was and how much time it took to make so many but I'm pretty sure she secretly loved the task. She made them for her and Jack plus their kids and grandkids. I was horrified when I realized that none of Dale's kids even liked the cream puffs but Dale never told his mother because then she wouldn't have given him as many. Then I tasted one and realized that sometimes a little deception is a wonderful thing.

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During the last few years of Ruthie's life, she was unable to make the cream puffs anymore. Jack, wanting to carry on the tradition, purchased them from a bakery instead but they just weren't as good as Ruthie's. So last year, on the first Valentine's Day without dear Ruth, I made the cream puffs. I was a little hesitant to do this. After all, I'm not Ruthie's daughter, I'm just her daughter-in-law and it seemed like I was maybe overstepping my bounds by taking on a family tradition as deep as this one. But Dale encouraged me to go for it and Jack said it would be okay - so I did it. I'll never forget the look on Jack's face when he tried one and said they were as good as Ruthie's. And Dale's sister Lisa's eyes filled with tears when she took a bite of hers, so I guess I did okay by Ruthie's cream puffs.

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And now, somehow, this has become my tradition, too.

Posted by Carole at February 15, 2007 7:00 AM

Comments

What a lovely tradition! And how kind of you to take up the torch and continue it.

Posted by: Manise at February 15, 2007 6:34 AM

Oh, and the last photo made me want to reach into the screen and dip my finger into the cream for a taste- yum.

Posted by: Manise at February 15, 2007 6:36 AM

What a great story and a great tradition. I love cream puffs; I think you should make some more and bring them to SPA ;)

Posted by: Julie at February 15, 2007 6:43 AM

What a lovely story, Carole. And those cream puffs look marvelous!

Posted by: Ann at February 15, 2007 6:45 AM

Those look delicious. I love the tradition and remember the most important thing about tradition is the memories it brings back.

Posted by: Karen at February 15, 2007 6:52 AM

Ok, now my eyes are filling with tears after reading this post. I think that it is wonderful that you are carrying on such a wonderful tradition. Thank you so much for sharing your story.

Posted by: Rachel at February 15, 2007 7:12 AM

An excellent tradition to carry on! Mmmm, I love cream puffs, but I can't even remember when I had one last.

Posted by: Norma at February 15, 2007 7:23 AM

What a WONDERFUL Valentine/Cream Puff Day story! You are such a loving and thoughtful person to take on that tradition, I'm sure Ruthie is looking down on you with a big smile!
They look delicious...shall I send you my address??

Posted by: Robin at February 15, 2007 7:39 AM

I love them when the are made with real cream. What a great tradition! C brought me canoli for Valentine's day.

Posted by: Judy at February 15, 2007 7:42 AM

Oh my, they look so good. The story is wonderful and the tradition must live on. You do good work, as a family archivist and as a great d-i-l.

Posted by: margene at February 15, 2007 7:43 AM

That's a wonderful story. Carrying on traditions is a good thing.

Posted by: Laurie at February 15, 2007 7:50 AM

What a fantastic story and tradition! Cream puffs always make me think of Raggedy Ann and the time I convinced Mom to make me cream puffs just like in the story.

Posted by: Julie at February 15, 2007 7:52 AM

That's a great story. :) And yummmmmmmmy, too. :)

Posted by: Cecily at February 15, 2007 7:59 AM

I love your food stories. And photos too. Yum!

Posted by: Liz K. at February 15, 2007 8:04 AM

Oh Marthaaaaaaaaaa........those cream puffs look FABULOUS. I'm coming to your house next year for Valentine's Day! LOL

Posted by: Kim at February 15, 2007 8:28 AM

Oh see, now you have my crying!!! I love the story and I so love that you are carrying on the tradition!!

Posted by: Karen at February 15, 2007 8:28 AM

The famous creampuffs! What a great tradition!

Posted by: Cheryl at February 15, 2007 8:38 AM

Aw, that is the sweetest story!
I've never had cream puffs before. They look really yummy though!

Posted by: heather at February 15, 2007 8:43 AM

OMG, those look heavenly!

Posted by: susan at February 15, 2007 8:45 AM

Beautiful tradition and well, *drool*.

The socks from the last post are gorgeous, too!

Posted by: Alison at February 15, 2007 8:46 AM

What a great tradition! The cream puffs look fabulous.

Posted by: Mindy at February 15, 2007 8:51 AM

Beautiful...I wish we had smellavision and tastavision. Those look gooood!!

Posted by: Kathleen at February 15, 2007 8:52 AM

You are amazing. Oh, those look SO good. ; )

Posted by: Vicki at February 15, 2007 8:54 AM

awwww, that is so sweet , in all ways! I love stories like this.

Posted by: gale (she shoots sheep shots) at February 15, 2007 8:55 AM

That is just the sweetest story. I'm glad you are having a good experience keeping this alive. :D

Your pictures are so yummy looking. Do you use her recipe or from somewhere else? Are you able to share it with us? (I totally understand if you can't.) *hugs*

So were they stationed in Roswell in 1947? Curious Otters wanna know that story, please. ;^)

Posted by: KnittyOtterk at February 15, 2007 8:59 AM

Oh, what a sweet (no pun intended) story Carole. You made my eyes well up with tears. Now that tradition is part of you as well.

Posted by: Wanda at February 15, 2007 9:04 AM

What a sweet story. The cream puffs look yummy.

Posted by: Monica at February 15, 2007 9:14 AM

These traditions are the best thing about holidays. *Drooling*

Posted by: Jan at February 15, 2007 9:16 AM

Dude. Well done.

Posted by: Rachel H at February 15, 2007 9:21 AM

A lovely tradition and it makes me dayum sorry I don't live next-door to you. (For many reasons....just sayin.)

Posted by: Anne at February 15, 2007 9:24 AM

Beautiful story Carole!
See you tomorrow! I can hardly wait.

Posted by: Kate at February 15, 2007 9:26 AM

A beautiful story - and a wonderful tribute to Ruthie.
They looks soooo delicious!

Posted by: Kirsten at February 15, 2007 9:29 AM

I am a fan of family traditions Carole, and that is a great one. I think it's wonderful that you are continuing the tradition!

Posted by: nova at February 15, 2007 9:32 AM

Are they hard to make? Can I have the recipe? I looooovvvvveeee cream puffs.

Posted by: Martha at February 15, 2007 9:58 AM

What a great ttradition. By coincidence we've been on a cream puff kick lately at my house but they're the store-bought frozen variety. As my girls were eating them the other night I suggested that we make some and now that's on our to-do list for this weekend. I hope they turn ot because I've never made them before.

Posted by: hillary at February 15, 2007 10:09 AM

What a great ttradition. By coincidence we've been on a cream puff kick lately at my house but they're the store-bought frozen variety. As my girls were eating them the other night I suggested that we make some and now that's on our to-do list for this weekend. I hope they turn out because I've never made them before.

Posted by: hillary at February 15, 2007 10:10 AM

what a great story carole! and good for you stepping up to keep the tradition alive, i'm sure it meant a lot to everyone in dale's family!

Posted by: amanda at February 15, 2007 10:11 AM

What a great story! I love that you're carrying on the tradition. And those look YUMMY!

Posted by: Leslie at February 15, 2007 10:13 AM

You made me cry and you made me hungry! It's a great tradition, thank you for sharing it with us.

Posted by: Ruth at February 15, 2007 10:24 AM

What a sweet story. It made me tear up a little. The cream puffs look so good. Yum!

Posted by: Mindy at February 15, 2007 10:25 AM

My mother has the same tradition. We always had cream puffs every V-Day and she still makes them for my dad.

Beautiful post, Carole.

Posted by: Annie at February 15, 2007 10:30 AM

That is a WONDERFUL story, and probably also the most delicious holiday tradition I've ever heard of. I share your appreciation for a well-made cream puff: they are to live for ('to die for' defeats the point--you want to stay around to eat them.)

I'm glad you've taken up the gauntlet. A tradition like that one shouldn't dwindle away, you know?

Posted by: Beth S. at February 15, 2007 10:30 AM

What a beautiful tradition!

Posted by: Kristi aka Fiber Fool at February 15, 2007 10:35 AM

That is so sweet (literally and figuratively). I got teary reading that. What a nice tradition and so wonderful of you to take it on.

Posted by: Erin at February 15, 2007 11:25 AM

What a great story! I'm a sap - it brought tears to my eyes. I guess I'm hopelessly sentimental (not necessarily a bad thing though).

Posted by: Kaitie Tee at February 15, 2007 11:32 AM

What a wonderful tradition, Carole!
You know, if you have leftover cream puffs and you need help finishing them, you can always send some to me. =)

Posted by: caitlyn at February 15, 2007 11:36 AM

What a lovely tradition. Tasty too! Your story made me tear up a little. Thank you for sharing your Cream Puff Day tradition with us!

Posted by: Lizzy B at February 15, 2007 11:38 AM

what a fabulous story and idea. next year i'm making cream puffs. (because next year i wont' be at a job that's 2 hours away form home and i'll actually have time to make cream puffs).

Posted by: maryse at February 15, 2007 11:53 AM

What a lovely tradition ... the story brought tears to my eyes.

And the cream puffs look delicious.

Posted by: Ruth at February 15, 2007 12:15 PM

What a truly wonderful tradition, and Kudos to you for keeping up the tradition. The cream puffs look delicious.

Posted by: Michelle at February 15, 2007 12:16 PM

You are such a temptress! Not one but MANY pictures, when just the first one made me think "I want to be at her house eating one of those!".

Posted by: lisa at February 15, 2007 12:31 PM

What a wonderful tradition!!! I love a good cream puff.

Posted by: Susan at February 15, 2007 12:40 PM

What a lovely tradition and a wonderful story.

Posted by: Cookie at February 15, 2007 12:42 PM

You are a splendid person. Thank you for sharing the story.

Posted by: Sylvia at February 15, 2007 12:44 PM

what a wonderful story. I am glad you kept up the tradition!!

Posted by: patti at February 15, 2007 12:49 PM

That is such a nice story! They look so yummy... my mouth is watering.

Posted by: Karen at February 15, 2007 12:49 PM

What a great story! That's such a fun family tradition, and I'm glad you were able to continue it!

And the cream puffs look amazing. Drool!

Posted by: Adam at February 15, 2007 12:58 PM

Thoughtful - caring! They look mighty dandy tasting.

Posted by: carol at February 15, 2007 1:12 PM

Oh great! Now I'm all verklempt! :)

You are an amazing woman Carole, thanks for sharing your spirit with me!

Posted by: Debi at February 15, 2007 1:21 PM

Even more reason to love you tons and bunches!!

Posted by: Deb at February 15, 2007 2:41 PM

Awesome story! Thank you for sharing it. The story and sentiment behind it brought tears to my eyes...what a special daughter-in-law you are!!

Posted by: Sara at February 15, 2007 2:50 PM

Bless your little heart! You certainly brought tears to my eyes. What a lovely tradition to carry on.

Posted by: Birdsong at February 15, 2007 3:15 PM

I was taken first by the scrumptious photos, and now by your family story. I think DILs are allowed to carry on traditions from all sides of the family. I might carry on your family's tradition for V-Day...

Posted by: Kim at February 15, 2007 3:21 PM

Now there's a tradition I could get behind. Yes, you are making me hungry again, but due to holiday hangover I forgive you.

Posted by: Lucia at February 15, 2007 3:37 PM

Mmmm. Cream Puff Day beats out VD any day.

;-)

Posted by: claudia at February 15, 2007 3:45 PM

That's a great story and so terrific that you've picked up the tradition.

Posted by: Kathy at February 15, 2007 3:57 PM

So perfect. Someday your grandkids will tell stories about YOUR cream puffs!
Yesterday my kids and I made sugar cookies using my great-aunt Susie's recipe (she owned a restaurant). They are the ones that my wonderful grandmother Mabel(Susie's sister) always made for me, and every time I eat one I know that Mabel is with me. I hope my kids will carry on the tradition!

Posted by: Katy at February 15, 2007 4:08 PM

Damn you woman. I can't see the keyboard.

Posted by: scoutj at February 15, 2007 4:23 PM

That's so sweet in more ways than one! :) It's so nice that your inlaws include you as part of the family like that.

Posted by: Jessica at February 15, 2007 4:32 PM

What a sweet story. No pun intended.

Posted by: sue at February 15, 2007 4:59 PM

What a wonderful story! And now I'm so hungry........

Posted by: Emily at February 15, 2007 5:17 PM

that is one of the sweetest stories I have ever heard! It was so great of you to do this for the family--it obviously meant so much to them. Good on you!

Posted by: Shannon at February 15, 2007 5:47 PM

Having just recently lost two very dear people who filled our lives with traditions and stories of simpler times, your cream puffs tradition makes me tear up (it’s a good thing I’m at work!). Thank you for sharing, Carole. They look absolutely delicious!

Posted by: Sue at February 15, 2007 5:53 PM

That's a lovely story - thanks for sharing, Carole!

Posted by: Chris at February 15, 2007 6:34 PM

Aw, I love it! And, do you know, the dessert I WAS going to make Mom yesterday for her birthday? Chocolate eclairs--pretty much the same thing, really. Yours look beautiful. What do you fill yours with? I can never find a filling recipe I'm happy with.

Posted by: --Deb at February 15, 2007 6:37 PM

What a wonderfully sweet story. Hope your V Day was as yummy as those cream puffs look!

Posted by: Joy at February 15, 2007 6:40 PM

*sniff!* Awwwww. I think it will have to become cream puff day for us too. Maybe my kids will hate them so Jeff and I can eat them all. hehehe I believe if you can make a cream puff, dear Carole, then maybe I can too. My mom always said "they're way too much work for something that's not very good." So I never tried it (despite how delicious the pictures always looked in my BHG cookbook). It's time I stop listening to Mom and go for it. :)

Posted by: Laura at February 15, 2007 6:46 PM

*misting up*

thanks for sharing your beautiful story

Posted by: Baubo at February 15, 2007 7:20 PM

Awwwwww

Posted by: Jen at February 15, 2007 8:15 PM

A beautiful story nicely told. What a gift to give your family in the spirit of Ruthie.

Posted by: Carol at February 15, 2007 10:27 PM

oh what a lovely story - traditions are so special - and you have a wonderful heart carrying this one on. lucky all who got to sample those beauties.

Posted by: Teyani at February 15, 2007 11:46 PM

Carole that was such a touching story! I wish our family had a neat tradition like that, but since we don't, you've inspired me to start one. I wonder what would be as neat as cream puffs?

Posted by: ~Kristie at February 16, 2007 2:22 AM

What a wonderful story. Thanks so much for sharing it!

Posted by: Kelly at February 16, 2007 7:35 AM

What a great story. I wish my family had traditions like that.

Posted by: Stephanie at February 16, 2007 2:08 PM

That's a wonderful tradition. Thank you so much for the story. And I hope you had a great Creampuff Day!

Posted by: BigAlice at February 16, 2007 2:21 PM

oh Carole, that´s the sweetest story i've ever read/heard. I'm sure Dale's mom is smiling at you right now. :)
love,
Frani

Posted by: Frani at February 16, 2007 2:48 PM

My Great Aunt Rena made cream puffs for us too, it was such a yummy treat. She even made homemade whip cream for them. It's a great tradition you have - to take what you have on hand to create something delicious and to make your valentine sweetheart plus men (& women) in the military happy - awesome! It brought tears to my eyes too because my Great Aunt passed last November (she was 101 yrs. old) - plus I'll always remember her because she taught me to knit too! :)

Posted by: Sue4 at February 18, 2007 10:54 AM

What a sweet story - no pun intended. Such a wonderful and touching tradition when you hear of how it started and so great that you've carried it on.

Posted by: Joanne at February 18, 2007 9:00 PM

What a beautiful story, Carole. I know it must mean a great deal to Dale that his mom's tradition is still going strong. The cream puffs look beautiful too. My MIL always made Bill an angle food cake for his birthday. I'm not much with the baking and haven't kept up the tradition. Your story makes me wish I had.

(I had to move my blog suddenly, the new address is above.)

Posted by: Donna at February 19, 2007 9:44 PM

in my family, march 19th is cream puf day—that's the feast of st joseph and the day the swallows come back to capistrano, italy. since we have a series of josephs in our male lineage, it is a very much celebrated feast day for us!

Posted by: anne at February 22, 2007 12:32 AM