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September 13, 2006
R is for Recipes
Guess what I found at my dad's house the other day? My mother's old recipe box. What a treasure! See, my mom died eight and a half years ago and it was a very, very difficult time for me. I wasn't able to help my dad sort through a lot of her things because it was just too painful. Now, of course, I'm sorry that I didn't make more of an effort to help out because my dad threw away things I would have wanted to keep. So, when I found this recipe box it was like a gift from my mom.
The recipes are old and yellowed. Many of them are stained from being used so frequently. Of course, that's how I know they're good! And it's not so much about the recipes themselves as I have most of them anyway. It's having the recipes in my mother's handwriting that really makes it special.
Like her grapenut pudding recipe.
Not a lot to go on there for directions, eh? And didn't my mom have beautiful handwriting?
And this recipe is signed "Mother S" and that was my grandmother on my dad's side. So neat to see her handwriting again and remember all the delicious Swedish foods she prepared.
The recipe for "soured" cream coffee cake comes from my mother's best friend, Miriam. And this is one recipe I didn't have and let me just tell you, it's the best coffee cake I've ever had. I'm really excited to be able to make this myself now! Miriam's recipe for Kugel is also in the box and we used to have that every year on Christmas.
I still miss my mom very much. But finding her recipe box brought back some wonderful memories of times spent together cooking, laughing and eating. You can bet that I'm going to treasure this recipe box for the true family heirloom that it is.
Posted by Carole at September 13, 2006 7:00 AM
Comments
An unexpected treasure! My mother gave me my grandmother's recipe box after she died and there are some things that no one made as well as my grandmother, especially her Passover brownies. Glad that there's a kugel recipe in there! Enjoy it -- it will bring you joy in each creation.
Posted by: Kathy at September 13, 2006 7:02 AM
oh that's so great! you should scan them so you can use them without messing up the originals.
what a great find.
Posted by: maryse at September 13, 2006 7:11 AM
Carole, what a wonderful find! Think about scanning them to preserve them. Print them out and you can make a little recipe book for your Hannah, too, to pass them down and keep mom's memory alive. (And include a few photos, too.)
I can see baking in your future!
Posted by: Dave Daniels at September 13, 2006 7:13 AM
What a delightful find for you! May it bring you joy and comfort for the rest of your life!
Posted by: Chris at September 13, 2006 7:13 AM
Sometimes people we love and miss pop up when we need them. I treasure my grandmother's recipe box and feel like she's watching over me every time I look through it.
Posted by: Karen at September 13, 2006 7:15 AM
Goodness! Those recipes are a treasure indeed! I love having mementos in folk's handwriting. I think it makes the memories more tangible somehow. Kind of like scents. For me, handwriting makes me think of the writer's hands and their attitude of writing. I have a pickel recipe from my grandmother much like the Grapefruit pudding recipe. It's like 3 lines long with a dash of something and a "let it sit out for awhile" for good measure. Thanks so much for sharing.
Posted by: Ann at September 13, 2006 7:18 AM
That's a treasure indeed. I was given my mother's mother's recipe box after she died and created a scrapbook of recipes. Like your find it included recipes written by many other family members as well including my great-grandma, my mom and aunts when they were little. It was also interesting just how many different things she found to record the recipes on. So glad you found these and that they bring you such wonderful memories!
Posted by: Julie at September 13, 2006 7:19 AM
One of the nicest things my parents ever did for me was type up all my favorite family recipes for me. It's so nice to have that record. But how wonderful to have the handwritten, "genuine" articles instead.
Posted by: Amy at September 13, 2006 7:23 AM
I think the scanning idea is a good one. Isn't it amazing how you can see handwriting you haven't seen in years and instantly recognize it?
My great grandmother passed away about ten years ago and last year I got all her knitting pattern books. They had been in a closet in my grandparents' house. As soon as I picked up a scrap of paper with a mitten pattern on it, I recognized her handwriting, and remembered a thousand postcards and letters received in my childhood.
I'm glad you have that.
Posted by: Cheryl at September 13, 2006 7:49 AM
Yum - Grapenut pudding! The original, handwritten recipes - what a treat. I'd laminate them just so I could keep the original little pieces of paper and scraps of whatever they were written on exactly as they were. Please post reviews of the recipes as you go through them!!
Posted by: Deb at September 13, 2006 7:50 AM
What a wonderful treasure. I love when recipies are short on directions . . . it means they were used so much it just came naturally. Mmmm, sour cream coffe cake. My grandmother made the best sour cream pound cake . . . I'll have to make one soon now that you've reminded me. Thank goodness for Splenda - I can actually have a slice too!!
Posted by: Karen at September 13, 2006 7:50 AM
My mother handwrote her favorite receipes and gave a card to each one of us grrls. Her recipes were not that good...really she wasn't a great cook. But, I do treasure them for her handwriting. She could bake, however and her cinnimon rolls just can't be beat;-)
What a fabulous find for you. It must have been an amazing moment to find them and see her handwriting...a minute to remember.
Posted by: margene at September 13, 2006 8:05 AM
What a great "R" post. I took a few recipes from my mother last time I was in Boston but they're cryptic at best. And then we have this damn altitude "problem." I may have to move back to Massachusetts just so I can use them. Oh, and I just sent that cake recipe for you.
Posted by: susan at September 13, 2006 8:12 AM
I'm so happy for you Carole! My mother promised to write out the family chocolate birthday cake recipe complete with mocha buttercream frosting as well as the pain d'epice ( honey spice bread) before she died, but couldn't remember it in the last few years. When she left my father and came back to the US she left it behind...or so she thought. See she couldn't bring herself to unpack all of her belongings as it was too painful for her- the memories of Greece etc...When my mother died this summer my sister and I went through all of those boxes that sat in a 3rd floor attic for 25 years and lo and behold found her "recipe"book ( an accounting ledger). The chocolate cake recipe was in there, but not many instructions to go with it. It'll be fun to play around with it and adjust the ingredients to get it right. Enjoy your adventures with her recipes!
Posted by: Manise at September 13, 2006 8:16 AM
Indeed a treasure:) I don't have many memories of myself and my mother in the kitchen (she hates to cook), but I love it and I'm teaching my girls how to measure and things. I haven't done Christmas cookies in years because they've been too young, but this may be the year. Maybe I should start writing down my favorite recipes for them.
I'm so glad you have something from your mom to give you good memories.
Posted by: Alison at September 13, 2006 8:31 AM
How great to have something of your mother's. Now you'll remember her with each recipe you make.
Posted by: Kelly at September 13, 2006 8:33 AM
What a wonderful treat to have discovered. Priceless.
Posted by: PumpkinMama at September 13, 2006 8:47 AM
Treasure--no other words could adequately describe.
Posted by: Kathleen at September 13, 2006 8:55 AM
That is such a wonderful treasure. I inherited my grandmothers recipe books (including a box of handwritten recipe cards) as well as her knitting stuff. Her notes are scattered throughout it all and they make me feel connected to the past.
Posted by: hillary at September 13, 2006 8:56 AM
Oh Carole, I'm so happy for you to find this treasure! The cake sounds divine!
Posted by: Becky / Knitting Interrupted at September 13, 2006 9:02 AM
What a wonderful find! So little is handwritten these days.
Posted by: Monica at September 13, 2006 9:05 AM
It was a gift from your mother. She came to you at just the time that you needed her.
Posted by: Liz K. at September 13, 2006 9:08 AM
That is fantastic. A lot of stuff got thrown away when my grandmother died too, that we probably would have kept if we'd thought about it a bit more. We still have lots of great memories, though.
Posted by: Lucia at September 13, 2006 9:11 AM
Oh, I have tears in my eyes just thinking about you discovering the box!
My mom has my grandmother's recipe notebook, but it is falling apart. For the holidays I am thinking about scanning all the pages in the computer and making copies for me and my siblings. It's not the same as the original--but still, to have her recipes in her handwriting is just priceless. Katy
Posted by: Katy at September 13, 2006 9:33 AM
What an absolute treasure! I can only imagine how thrilled you are to have found the recipe box.
I handwrite all my recipes on cards -- time consuming and old fashioned but that is how my Great Aunt Grace did it and I inherited hers and know how much more meaningful it makes them. Now go make some coffee cake!
Posted by: amanda at September 13, 2006 9:38 AM
What an incredible find! You'll have memories of your mom every time you prepare one of her favorites!
Posted by: jillian at September 13, 2006 9:47 AM
What a great treasure to find!
Posted by: Mindy at September 13, 2006 10:05 AM
That's a treasure, all right! I'm so glad you were reunited with it. :-) And your mom (and grandmother) had amazing penmanship--I want to call it 'teacher-quality', even. It's kind of a shame that we don't put much emphasis on penmanship anymore (especially in the age of the computer.)
Enjoy the coffee cake! I'm squinting at that picture, trying to decipher the secret recipe. ;-)
Posted by: Beth S. at September 13, 2006 10:52 AM
oh my. you made me cry this morning... (in a nice way.) In this day of instant messaging and emails, very few people take the time to hand write letters. I think that handwriting is one of the most personal things about us... I have saved every note my parents wrote me from the past ten years or so for this very reason.
I am completely delighted for you that your Mom reached out and gave you this little 'hug' from above. Her timing seems so perfect.
Posted by: Teyani at September 13, 2006 11:01 AM
A beautiful R and a wonderful find for you! MMMM sour cream coffee cake
Posted by: Liz Kalloch at September 13, 2006 11:02 AM
Wow. What a true treasure. I'm so glad you have your mom's recipe box - and all the memories that it holds.
Posted by: Stephanie at September 13, 2006 11:30 AM
What a wonderful thing to have. I still treasure recipes written in both my Mom's and my MIL's hand; they bring back so many memories. Enjoy and get baking! :)
Posted by: Susanne at September 13, 2006 11:42 AM
That is so wonderful! I am so happy for you. And it is really beautiful handwriting.
Posted by: Emily at September 13, 2006 11:57 AM
I'm sorry about your Mom....I dread the day my parents leave us, but what a wonderful gift she left behind. With the passage of time, it has made it a bit easier and you will always have that little piece of her.
((Hugs))
Posted by: Kim at September 13, 2006 12:19 PM
Oh, Carole, I am speechless. I knew, the minute I saw the R and that first picture -- I knew exactly what you had. Oh, and what treasure it is. I am crying. Truly, truly -- oh, you are so lucky -- and Hannah!! I know you'll keep them for her. Thank goodness your dad kept these and that you have them now. I can just feel the softness -- the butter-stained spots, the blurred ink, the ones that feel like you just can't get all the flour brushed off. Absolutely perfect. Thank you so much for sharing. Mwah.
Posted by: Vicki at September 13, 2006 12:23 PM
You know that I know what a wonderful find that is! What a great surprise, and to have the ability to have a part of your mother with you always.......
And, the coffee cake? It just sounds yummy......
Posted by: christine at September 13, 2006 12:50 PM
What a wonderful find!! One of my most precious recipe books came from my Grnadmother. She wrote all of her favorite recipes for me. I love making them and seeing her handwriting is like having in the kitchen to guide me. Family recipes are the best!
Posted by: Susan at September 13, 2006 1:05 PM
What a wonderful memory and it's so special that you found the recipes. Maybe you'll share the coffee cake one with us??
Posted by: Lisa at September 13, 2006 1:18 PM
What a cool thing to have found, Carole. I'm glad it's bringing you a bit of comfort.
I've got an ancient cookbook of my grandmother's with a big spiral burner mark on the back, and it's quite the treaure, as are her handwritten recipes.
Posted by: Snow at September 13, 2006 1:24 PM
Now that IS a treasure! I'm so happy for you! I'm lucky enough to have my Grandmother's signature cake recipe, but so wish I had asked her for her pound cake recipe when I had the chance....
Posted by: --Deb at September 13, 2006 1:45 PM
Gosh Carole - I'm almost speechless over how precious this must be to you. Even my own recipes are precious to me. They're getting old. Yellowed. Ones written by my younger sister that were mailed to me after I married and left home. Ones written by my grandmother for me. Oh. They're right up there with treasured Christmas ornaments. Thanks so much for sharing this treasure with us. :)
Posted by: Laura at September 13, 2006 2:08 PM
You are getting lots of helpful suggestions, but my friend had her mother's favourite cookie recipe - written in her own hand, framed and put up on the kitchen wall - so she had a constant reminder and it looked great. Lovely way to keep the memories alive.
Posted by: Marjisam at September 13, 2006 2:56 PM
What a beautiful gift that your mom gave you! My mom was an amazing cook and baker but unfortunately her recipes were not organized. I was only 23 when she passed away so it wasn't until after she was gone that I began trying to collect her recipes so that I could make our traditional meals. It meant going through her many recipe books and loose papers to find out just how she had made those yummy dishes. But I remember how special it was to come across her own handwriting and feel connected to her again. It's amazing how such a little piece of paper can be so precious. Thanks for sharing, Carole.
Posted by: Romy at September 13, 2006 4:06 PM
Grapenut pudding! I know how much you love that! I'm sure that Barb is smilin'.
Remember all those Sunday dinners? Yum.
Posted by: Chrissie at September 13, 2006 4:23 PM
Your mother's handwriting looks just like my mom's! The handwritten makes all the difference. My family recipes are all email print outs, which amuses me but not the same. :)
Posted by: Jennifer at September 13, 2006 4:35 PM
Carole, what a treasure! I'm so happy that you were able claim this little bit of your family history before it was lost. And now that you have the recipes, you can continue traditions for your own family.
Ahhh, I love a post like this!
Posted by: Jan at September 13, 2006 6:50 PM
What an amazing and joyful find!
Posted by: Chris at September 13, 2006 7:44 PM
Wow, those are fantastic! I love old handwritten recipes, especially the family ones. I have an old one that was my great-grandmother's, for oatmeal cookies. They are the best I've ever had, (but I have to measure when I make those, dang it.)
Those are definitely a special find Carole.
Posted by: heather at September 13, 2006 9:10 PM
How wonderful!
Posted by: Jess at September 13, 2006 9:31 PM
Oh what a treasure! I do think you should follow up Dave's idea, and press and preserve the recipes for their handwriting, but use the copies. I never thought of that before myself, and will need to do it with the ones I have from my dad and grannies, but it is a real link to your personal history and the good times with your mama to have the actual originals...
Posted by: Birdsong at September 13, 2006 10:11 PM
A true treasure and an heirloom you can pass along to future generations :)
Posted by: Debi Leshin at September 13, 2006 10:59 PM
I used to bake Christmas cookies with my Grandmother every year when I was a little girl. I now have the cookie cutters that we used. I made the same cookies with my girls when they were growing up. When Grandma died I was given her recipe boxes. The recipes are all written out by hand. There are coupons and magazine articles that she cut out. It is a priceless treasure. How wonderful for you. I really like the photos.
Posted by: Grace at September 14, 2006 6:50 AM
That is an absolutely priceless find! My gosh - that's wonderful - what a great collection with so much history attached!
Posted by: Esther at September 14, 2006 1:04 PM
That's wonderful that you found it! Smell and taste are such memory triggers. I've still got my much-spotted recipe for chocolate frosted brownies. Such an innocuous name for such an eeevil food.
Posted by: BigAlice at September 14, 2006 1:30 PM
What a treasure! A dear friend of mine lost her mom more than 20 years ago, but has told me more than once that one of her most prized possessions are the recipe cards written in her mother's hand. It makes me wonder about what I'll leave my kids...my recipes are almost all typed on the computer!
Posted by: Leslie at September 14, 2006 4:54 PM
Those Momlooms are quite precious. Strange how something as simple as her handwriting strikes such chords. I know how you feel.
Posted by: Laurie at September 14, 2006 9:44 PM
That's so lovely you found your mother's recipe. Really a treasure! I'm so happy for you.
Posted by: Wanda at September 15, 2006 2:03 AM
What a wonderful thing to have found. You must really feel your mother's presence (not in a supernatural way, just in an emotional way) when you read her well-worn recipes and see her handwriting. I'm really glad for you that you found that.
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